[TMUX] Fall back to ssh alias unless remote title is user@host

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

tmux/.tmux.conf

@@ -43,12 +43,13 @@ bind - run-shell 'v="#{@venv}"; d="#{pane_current_path}"; if [ -n "$v" ]; then t
 # its global env carries one), regardless of what the source pane had.
 bind c new-window -e VIRTUAL_ENV=
 
-# ssh panes: the shell sets #{@ssh_host} and the pane title to the alias (see
-# zsh/lib/interactive.zsh); a remote that sets its own title overrides the
-# latter. Label ssh panes by title in the window name and, only in windows with
-# an ssh pane, in the pane border.
-set -g automatic-rename-format '#{?#{@ssh_host},#{=40:pane_title},#{?pane_in_mode,[tmux],#{pane_current_command}}#{?pane_dead,[dead],}}'
-set -g pane-border-format '#{?#{@ssh_host},#[bold] #{=60:pane_title} #[default],}'
+# ssh panes: the shell sets #{@ssh_host} to the alias (see
+# zsh/lib/interactive.zsh). Label them with the remote's title if it is a bare
+# user@host (as our server zsh pins it), else with the alias; in the window
+# name and, only in windows with an ssh pane, in the pane border.
+set -g @ssh_label '#{?#{m/r:^[^@: ]+@[^@: ]+$,#{pane_title}},#{pane_title},#{@ssh_host}}'
+set -g automatic-rename-format '#{?#{@ssh_host},#{=40:#{E:@ssh_label}},#{?pane_in_mode,[tmux],#{pane_current_command}}#{?pane_dead,[dead],}}'
+set -g pane-border-format '#{?#{@ssh_host},#[bold] #{=60:#{E:@ssh_label}} #[default],}'
 set-hook -g window-layout-changed \
   'if -F "#{P:#{@ssh_host}}" "set -w pane-border-status top" "set -wu pane-border-status"'
 

zsh/lib/interactive.zsh

@@ -110,7 +110,7 @@ zstyle :bracketed-paste-magic paste-finish pastefinish
 ZSH_AUTOSUGGEST_CLEAR_WIDGETS+=(bracketed-paste)
 
 # Mirror the ssh destination into a per-pane tmux option; .tmux.conf labels ssh
-# panes (window name, pane border only in windows with ssh panes) by title.
+# panes with it or the remote's user@host title.
 _ssh_host_tmux() {
     local -a set=(set -p -t $TMUX_PANE @ssh_host "$1")
     [[ -n $1 ]] || set=(set -pu -t $TMUX_PANE @ssh_host)
@@ -146,8 +146,8 @@ _ssh_host_preexec() {
     [[ -n $host ]] || return
     _ssh_host_tmux $host
     _ssh_host_set=1
-    # pane title starts as the alias; a remote that sets its own title wins.
-    # Runs after OMZ's preexec, so this replaces its "ssh ..." title.
+    # title the pane with the alias until the remote sets one; runs after
+    # OMZ's preexec, so this replaces its "ssh ..." title
     print -rn -- $'\e]2;'"$host"$'\e\\'
 }
 _ssh_host_precmd() {